Early this week, I was talking with a colleague about how I would love to be able to see all women before they head into IVF, or see them when they were a teenager to educate them and help the with a better future for their fertility and gynaecological health.
My colleague then said to me “The issue is that most women are mismanaged at around age 13 and this is why they end up having fertility issues and ongoing gynaecological and menstrual related issues later on.”
The truth is, if we really to trace back the cause, or start of a woman’s fertility, gynaecological, or menstrual related issues, it would most likely be due to mismanagement at around age 13 when she first got her period. In this video I bring light to this very introspective, and very interesting topic that many probably have not thought about. It isn’t always mismanaged by the people you think it is either.
Let’s bring better education and awareness to women’s health issues because we know that early intervention and early management if the key to better future outcomes. It all starts with education first. Have a listen to my video on this very important topic (click on the youtube video link to watch
If you, or your daughter needs help with a menstrual issue, or period pain etc, please give my friendly staff a call and ask how I may be able to assist you.
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Pelvic floor hypertonus is a condition that not many people hear about, or even know about. Often when we talk about pelvic floor dysfunction many people will automatically think of weak pelvic floor muscles often created from having children, or part of the aging process. This is where the pelvic floor muscles are too relaxing and need tightening and strengthening.
However more and more we are now seeing women, especially young women, with pelvic floor muscles that are too tight and non-relaxed and this is leading to chronic pelvic pain and other pelvic health and sexual health issues. This is called Pelvic Floor Hypertonus. For this article I will be talking about how Pelvic Floor Hypertonus affects women, even though men can have this as well.
What is Pelvic Floor Hypertonus?
Pelvic floor hypertonus occurs when the muscles in the pelvic floor become too tight and are unable to relax. Many women with an overly tight and non-relaxing pelvic floor experience pelvic health issues such as constipation, painful sex, urinary urgency, bladder issues and pelvic pain. Women with pelvic floor hypertonus may also have musculoskeletal issues that cause tightness and tension in surrounding hip, sacrum and pelvic muscles.
Pelvic floor hypertonus is not widely recognized and can often go on undiagnosed. It is certainly on the missed and dismissed list. Unlike in pelvic floor disorders caused by muscles too relaxed and are easily identified (such as pelvic organ prolapse or urinary incontinence etc), women affected by pelvic floor hypertonus may present with a broad range of nonspecific symptoms mentioned previously and below. All these related symptoms require relaxation and coordination of pelvic floor muscles and urinary and anal sphincters. Many of these symptoms can really affect the quality of woman’s life.
The signs and symptoms of pelvic floor hypertonus
The main and typical symptom of pelvic floor hypertonus is pelvic pain, or pelvic muscular pain. There can be a wide range of other symptoms including the following:
- Urinary issues such as urge frequency, frequent urination or painful urination
- Slow flow, hesitancy, or delayed start of urination
- Constipation and straining when emptying the bowels.
- incomplete emptying of the bowels
- pressure feeling in the pelvis and rectum
- pain in the pelvis, genitals or rectum
- chronic pelvic pain
- muscles spasms in the pelvis, or pelvic floor
- low back pain
- hip pain
- coccyx pain
- painful sex
If left untreated pelvic floor hypertonus can lead to long term health issues, colon and bladder damage and can also cause infection.
What causes pelvic floor hypertonus?
There is no one defining cause of pelvic floor hypertonus. Many things can cause non-relaxing pelvic floor muscles ranging from sitting too much, exercising too much, obesity, stress and also chronic inflammatory disease states. Here are some of the causes of pelvic floor hypertonus:
- Interstitial cystitis
- Irritable Bowel Syndrome
- Pudendal Neuralgia
- History of holding onto the bowels, or bladder too long
- Over exercising and over exercising the core muscles
- Being sedentary, or over-sitting too long
- High levels of stress, fear and anxiety
- Obesity or being overweight
- Child Birth, or Birth Trauma
- Injury to the pelvic floor
- Sexual and emotional abuse
- Nerve Damage
It is very important to identify the cause of pelvic floor hypertonus individually and why it is so important to see a healthcare expert, or pelvic floor specialist that specialises in this area. As with many other inflammatory conditions, a multimodality treatments approach is needed and may involved several modalities, or practitioners working together to help the individual. A pelvic floor physiotherapist may also be needed to help with exercises to relax the pelvic floor along with other modalities such as acupuncture to help with pain, relaxation and stress relief.
What are some of the things that can benefit pelvic floor hypertonus?
As mentioned before, it is important to see a healthcare expert who can identify what the cause of the pelvic floor hypertonus is and recommend a management and treatment plan moving forward. This will usually require a multimodality treatment approach, which could involve the following:
- Pelvic floor muscle relaxation techniques
- Mindfulness and meditation techniques
- Breathing techniques
- Pilates and yoga to help with stretching
- Advice on better bladder and bowel habits
- Pelvic floor and core muscle releasing abdominal massage
- Specific stretches for the pelvis, hips and sacrum
- The use of vaginal dilators, and/or vaginal eggs to help with relaxing and stretching the pelvic floor muscles
- Acupuncture to help with pain, stress and relaxation, alongside medical interventions.
- Massage to help with internal scar tissue (done by a pelvic floor physiotherapist)
- Warm baths and self care
- Use of TENS and electro-neuro stimulators to help with pain
- Biofeedback therapy
- Pain medications and muscles relaxants
- Complementary medicines (prescribed by a qualified healthcare professional)
Outlook and importance of seeing an expert
The main goal of treating and managing pelvic floor hypertonus is to relax the muscles of the pelvic floor to relieve pain and other associated symptoms.
Although living with pelvic floor hypertonus embarrassing or sometimes painful, non relaxing pelvic floor dysfunction is a highly treatable condition. It is important that you talk to a healthcare expert in this area, or a pelvic floor specialist. It’s important not to self-diagnose your symptoms, or try to Dr Google your symptoms, because left untreated pelvic floor hypertonus can lead to long term pain and health issues and also irreparable damage.
There are many conservative management approaches that can be used before resorting to hard-core pain medications, muscle relaxants and surgery. Your healthcare expert will be able to discuss all these options and ongoing healthcare management and treatments with you. The main thing is booking a consultation with a proper healthcare expert to get a proper diagnosis.
If you need help and assistance with pelvic floor hypertonus, or pelvic pain, please give my friendly staff a call and find out how I can assist you.
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Just like endometriosis, there is a lot of the information about PCOS, but it is more about the symptoms, time to diagnosis and future fertility outcomes.
While it is necessary to educate people about these things, nobody is really talking about the serious health complications of unmanaged PCOS.
There have been some big changes to the diagnosis of PCOS, but still it can often take up to 3 years or more to get a proper diagnosis. While it may not take as long as endometriosis to be diagnosed, it still means that many women are being missed and dismissed in those year before they are finally diagnosed.
Like Endometriosis, some women with PCOS are never diagnosed and some women do not have any symptoms and can have very regular cycles etc. Women can have PCOS and endometriosis together, alongside other issues such as adenomyosis as well.
There are serious health consequences with unmanaged PCOS
The main thing I am trying to bring to everyone’s attention is that it doesn’t matter what disease you have, if it is left unmanaged, or not managed properly, it can have some pretty serious consequences of ones fertility, and mental and physical health.
PCOS is not exception. While the symptoms of PCOS are not as bad as those suffered with endometriosis, or adenomyosis, women can still suffer in many other ways. The long-term consequences of unmanaged PCOS can be very serious and can also lead to early death (cardiovascular disease, stroke etc.) and also lead to certain cancers.
PCOS is thought to have a genetic component. People who have a mother or sister with PCOS are more likely to develop PCOS than someone whose relatives do not have the condition. This family link is the main risk factor.
Then there is the insulin resistance factor with PCOS as well. Insulin resistance is a primary driver of PCOS and there is now evidence to show that most, if not all, women with PCOS have insulin resistance by default. Again this appears to be through genetic or family links of someone having PCOS, or having diabetes in the family tree etc.
Excess insulin is thought to affect a woman’s ability to ovulate because of its effect on androgen production. Research has shown that women with PCOS have low-grade inflammation that stimulates polycystic ovaries to produce androgens.
This is why diet and lifestyle interventions are so important in the overall management of PCOS. It is because these changes help with the insulin resistance.
There are other risk factors such as obesity, stress, nutritional deficiencies and sedentary lifestyle. Have a look at my page about more information on PCOS and risk factors etc (Click Here)
The Common Symptoms of PCOS
It is important to know what the common symptoms of PCOS are, so that women and healthcare professionals alike know what to look for.
The common symptoms of PCOS include:
- irregular menses
- excess androgen levels
- acne, oily skin, and dandruff
- excessive facial and body hair growth, known as Hirsutism
- female pattern balding
- skin tags
- acanthosis nigricans, or dark patches of skin
- sleep apnea
- high stress levels
- depression and anxiety
- high blood pressure
- Increased risk of miscarriage
- decreased libido
- high cholesterol and triglycerides
- insulin resistance
- type 2 diabetes
- pelvic pain
- weight management difficulties including weight gain or difficulty losing weight
Early Intervention and management is crucial
The causes of PCOS are unclear, but early intervention, early diagnosis and early management, can help relieve symptoms and reduce the risk of complications. Anyone who may have symptoms of PCOS should see their healthcare provider, women’s healthcare specialist, or PCOS expert.
Coping with the symptoms of PCOS and managing the treatments can be demanding ands sometimes stressful. But, to then learn there can be serious complications and added risks to your health from PCOS not being managed properly can be distressing.
Be educated and get proper help
Just like any disease state just being aware, and being educated there are added risks is an important first step. Once you have the common symptoms of PCOS under control then you can turn your mind to thinking about ways to prevent further complications. The good news is that many of the treatments and management strategies you will use for your PCOS will also help to prevent many of the serious complications. A qualified healthcare professional, or a healthcare practitioner who is an expert in PCOS should be managing anyone with PCOS. Nobody should be trying to manage PCOS on their own without some form of professional help.
The serious complications of PCOS
Women with PCOS are thought to be at higher risk of having future heart disease or stroke. They are also at higher risk of diabetes, endometrial cancer and other cancers too.
What are the serious complications of unmanaged PCOS?
Besides the risk factors already mentioned, the serious complications of unmanaged PCOS are as follows:
- Weight gain or obesity
- Type 2 diabetes
- Cardiovascular disease
- Metabolic syndrome (generally having at least two of high blood pressure, high cholesterol, obesity, high fasting blood glucose)
- Endometrial cancer
- Other cancers (breast, ovarian)
- Sleep apnoea
- Inflammation of the liver
- Increased Pregnancy induced hypertension and pre-eclampsia
- Increased gestational diabetes
- Increased risk of stroke
- Increased risk of sudden death
- Psychological disorders
- Mood disorders (anxiety, depression)
What you can do
If you are worried about the serious complications of unmanaged PCOS it is helpful to:
- Get your symptoms of PCOS under control as a first step
- Discuss any concerns with your healthcare practitioner, or women’s health/PCOS expert.
- Learn about and understand your risks
- Learn that early intervention and early healthcare management is the key to assisting any disease state.
- Have your blood pressure, blood glucose and cholesterol checked regularly
- Seek guidance and support to help with weight management and dietary and lifestyle management.
- Remember that all body types can have PCOS, not just those who are overweight.
- Do not try to manage the symptoms of PCOS on your own.
If you do need assistance with PCOS and would like my help, please call my friendly staff and found out how I may be able to assist you. There are options for online consultations and consultations in person.
As mentioned before the key to any disease is early intervention and early healthcare management and you taking the first steps to get the help you need. PCOS also needs a multimodality approach. There are many facets to it. Don’t put off your health. Just pick up the phone and make that appointment today. There can be some very serious consequences if you do, especially for some conditions such and PCOS.
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A lot of the information about endometriosis, is more about it’s symptoms, time to diagnosis and future fertility outcomes. While it is necessary to educate people about these things, nobody is really talking about the serious complications of unmanaged endometriosis. This is not to scare people, or create fear, but at the same time it does need to be talked about and for all concerned to know how serious this disease state can be at its worst.
We know that many women are missed and dismissed when it comes to endometriosis. It often takes up to 10 years, or even more for some women, before they are definitively diagnosed. Some women are never diagnosed and end up suffering a terrible life because of it. Some women with endometriosis are asymptomatic (meaning no symptoms) and often only get diagnosed as part of fertility evaluation, when they may be having trouble conceiving.
The symptoms of endometriosis are easy to see
The symptoms of endometriosis are very easy to see, if someone knows what they are looking for and knows the right questions to ask. Sure, a definite diagnosis via laparoscopy is still needed, but there are some very clear-cut pointers that a woman may have the disease. But due to lack of education and lack of true experts in this area means that lots of women are missed and dismissed, and that is a fact.
The vicious cycle of mismanagement
But while there are inadequacies in the healthcare profession when it comes to endometriosis, not all mismanagement can be blamed on healthcare professionals. There are people who are not seeking proper help soon enough, and some not at all, and this can lead to long-term complications too. We also have women trying to manage their own disease through advice of friends, social media groups and Dr Google as well. This then creates one hell of a mismanaged cycle that does not help anyone.
I can see the issues from all points of view, especially those who suffer the disease. But as a healthcare professional with a special interest in Endometriosis, I have had my fair share of non-compliant patients too.
While many have been let down through mismanagement, lack of funding and education, being missed and dismissed etc, there are many women who are self sabotaging as well. I have seen many not take on advice, recommendations and proper management of their disease, that could help them, then these same people scream high and low that the system has let them down. There are some who are just happy to live with the disease, as it is their only way of seeking attention. This is a fact also and we need to talk about it.
This is what has prompted me to do this post so that all concerned get to know what the serious side of mismanaged endometriosis is. Sometimes it is only via the serious harsh side of reality, that all concerned may actually get some help and some serious attention be bought to this disease state.
The common symptoms of endometriosis
We know that many women suffer greatly at the hands of this disease. Women with endometriosis can get the follow common symptoms:
- Period pain
- Pain with intercourse
- IBS like symptoms
- Gastrointestinal issues
- Chronic constipation
- Chronic diarrhoea
- Pain on bowel movement
- Bleeding from the bowel
- Chronic abdominal pain
- Severe bloating (endo belly)
- Chronic bloating
- Aversion to foods (even if they are not the trigger)
- Ovulation Pain
- Ovary pain
- UTI like symptoms (with no infection present)
- Migraines and headaches
- Chronic pelvic pain
- Pelvic and rectal pressure feeling
- Musculoskeletal pain
- Chronic nerve pain
- Fluid retention
- Iron deficiency
- Mood swings
- Mood disorders
- Other symptoms
Early intervention and management is crucial
Women’s lives are greatly impacted by this disease and it is important that not only healthcare professionals understand this but also sufferers of the disease. Early intervention and proper ongoing management is the key to helping this disease and everyone needs to be aware of this. Being missed and dismissed, or waiting too long to help, can really have some serious consequences if this disease is left to grow and spread and cause serious damage in the body
The serious consequences of mismanaged/unmanaged endometriosis
While we have talked about the common daily symptoms that many can put up with, we also need to bring attention to just how serious this disease can get. Let’s face it, it can and does spread like cancer and it can spread to every organ in the body. It has been found in the joints of bones, fingers, in the liver, around the lungs, around the diaphragm, around the heart, on the bowels, on the bladder, on the ovaries, on the pelvic, in the fallopian tubes, one the retina in the eyes and it has even found in the brain.
There is no doubt that this disease can be very devastating for anyone who has it, but what happens in the worst cause scenario, if it is left unmanaged.
The following can be serious complications of unmanaged endometriosis:
- Haemorrhage from the ovaries
- Ruptured ovaries
- Ovarian torsion
- Obliterated fallopian tubes
- Ruptured endometrioma
- Endometrioma infection
- Pelvic infection
- Obliteration of the pelvic cavity
- Compacted bowel
- Obstructed bowel
- Perforated bowel
- Bowel haemorrhage
- Torsion of the bowel and intestines.
- Ureteral Obstruction (Blocked ureters)
- Renal infection
- Bladder obstruction
- Painful bladder syndrome
- Severe adhesions
- Significant scar tissue build up
- Significant fluid build up in the pelvic cavity.
- Multiple organs adhered together
- Diaphragmic adhesions
- Liver damage
- Perihepatic adhesions
- Pericardial endometriosis
- Cardiovascular events
- Chronic nerve pain
- Pudendal nerve neuralgia.
- Chronic musculosketal, or spinal pain
- Arthritic like pain and associated symptoms
- Chronic Migraine and neurological events.
- Malignancies and cancers (rare but more research being done)
- Recurrent miscarriage
- Absolute infertility
- Opioid dependency and addiction
- Death from opioids medications
- Complications from medications and hormonal treatments
- Psychotic disorders
- Suicidal tendencies and thoughts
- Death (rare from endometriosis directly, but can be from associated factors related to endometriosis and also taking ones own life)
Women with endometriosis need to see an “Endometriosis Expert”
This is why endometriosis needs to be managed properly and managed by a healthcare professional that specialises in the management of endometriosis and associated symptoms. You need to see and Endometriosis Expert.
People cannot treat, or manage the symptoms of endometriosis on their own. This is why it is so important to have the right care and also have a multimodality/team approach to endometriosis. No amount of google searching is going to help people treat endometriosis on their own. You need to find an endometriosis expert.
At the same time more education needs to be given to GP’s and other healthcare professionals about endometriosis. Too many women are being missed and dismissed because of lack of practitioner understanding and education at the front line. Women need to see healthcare professionals that specialise in endometriosis and endometriosis experts for this disease, not just a GP. Women also need access to advanced trained laparoscopic surgeons who specialise in excision surgery, not just a regular gynaecologist who is not advanced trained. I have talked about this often.
Endometriosis is not just about period pain
Lastly, we need to educate ‘all’ that endometriosis is not just about period pain. Endometriosis can present with many different signs and symptoms ranging from gastrointestinal symptoms, extreme bloating, bladder issues, bowel issues, IBS symptoms, migraines, fluid retentions, pain with intercourse, pain on bowel movement and so many other symptoms mentioned before. There is also the long-term impact on fertility for up to 50% of women too.
This is why early intervention and management of teenagers presenting with the disease symptoms is crucial. The longer the disease is left, the more damage it can do and all women deserve to be mothers (if they chose) and deserve a normal happy life. We also need to recognise the psychological impact of the disease and how this can present in someone with the disease as well.
Women are dying because of being mismanaged/unmanaged
Let’s face it, there are women dying because of this disease. Maybe not as direct result, but definitely indirectly. No woman should ever be pushed to the point where she cannot handle her pain and symptoms any longer and be only left with the choice of taking ones own life. This is exactly we need to bring more education to all about this disease. This means both healthcare practitioners and people with the disease itself too.
People need to be managed properly and by professionals. We need to start bring education and attention to this, so that people do not try to manage this disease on their own, and practitioners are held more accountable for dismissing women as well. Because if we don’t the complications of this can be very severe and sometime they can be fatal also.
Endometriosis awareness month is next month and I want to see all women with endometriosis being managed properly and seeking the right help. There are endometriosis experts out there who can help you if you have the disease and the associated symptoms. No woman should be doing this on their own.
Let me help you
If you so need help with managing endometriosis and the associated symptoms of endometriosis, please give my staff a call and find out how I can assist you. I have options for in-person consultations and online consultations. I use a multimodality/team approach and I also work in with some of the best medical healthcare professionals and surgeons in the country. I will always make sure you get the best care, best support and best management possible. I will also hold your hand every step of the way and make sure your every concern is listened to as well.
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Many times I have talked about “Why a hysterectomy does not cure endometriosis” and so I have decided to talk about “When a hysterectomy should be considered”
Now, before you go any further, I need people to sit back, listen objectively and also take the personal out of this. This is a very personal topic and yes, I am a man and a male healthcare practitioner all in one, with over 20 years experience in helping women with women’s health conditions and being a voice for them also. But regardless, this topic does need to be talked about. Any negative comments, or rudeness will get the delete button immediately. Constructive discussion is always welcome.
The long and short of it is this. There are times when a hysterectomy should be considered (lack of quality of life, cancers etc) and we need to be able to give women the facts so that they can make informed choices, and also not be judged for those choices either. The fact is that for some conditions, women actually get their life back after having a hysterectomy and I talk about all of this and more in this video blog.
In this latest video post I talk about why the “No Uterus-No Comment” speech on forums needs to stop.
As someone who is a Master of Women’s Health Medicine, a Women’s Health Expert, and work tirelessly to be a voice for women’s health issues (And a Male), I have a very frank and blunt discussion about some of the male bashing hate speech comments that get thrown around various forums.
Have a listen to the latest video blog on this very important topic.
When people ask me about what is the cause of most couples issues trying to conceive, I always say ” How long is a piece of string?”
There can be so many factors involved and there is never just one clear answer. Many times people are focussing completely on the wrong thing too.
In this video blog below, I have an honest discussion about fertility on every level. I discuss diet, lifestyle, preconception care, supplements, natural medicines, western medicines, investigations, genetic issues, stress, IVF procedures, Natural killer cells, unrealistic expectations, self sabotage, weight issues and much much more.
So again, when anyone asks what the cause of fertility issues are, I will always answer “How long is piece of string?”
Because in reality, there are so many factors that couple are unaware of, and need to be aware of too.
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One of the things I find myself saying to parents often is “Please don’t let your daughter suffer with the wait and see approach for period pain.”
The reason I often say this is because daily I get messages from parents, mainly mothers, asking if they should wait and see if their daughters pain (and other symptoms) is miraculously going to go away. Many of these young girls have been putting up with pain for months, or longer, and still many parents are using the “wait and see” approach.
Many of these messages often start with the story that their daughter is laying on the bathroom floor in excruciating pain. The stories usually add in that their daughters may also have symptoms of nausea, headaches, vomiting and even stories of these poor young girls passing out with pain.
Then there is the usual response of “I used to get period pain and associated symptoms like this and I just had to learn to live with it”
Then comes the question I always hear so often- “Do you think I should wait and see if this just goes away, or do you think I should take her to someone to have her checked out?”
I often have to bite my tongue when responding to questions and stories such as this. If my daughter was laying on a bathroom floor each month, and in excruciating pain, there is no way I would be waiting and seeing if her pain is going to miraculously disappear. The first time she had pain, I would be off doing something about it, and I would not be taking no for an answer.
Many parents suffered period pain themselves
There is always several ways to look at this and why I always offer an empathic response. Many parents were in pain themselves and went through similar experiences. Many of these same parents were told to suck it up and that this is what a woman has to put up with each month. So to them, this is reality. This is their norm. They suffered, so it is natural for them to believe that their daughter just has to wait and see and suffer it out too.
But, as I say to these parents, these symptoms that your daughter is experiencing are not normal. Period pain and all the other terrible associated symptoms are not normal. No woman, young or older, should have to put up with excruciating pains related to her cycle, or an undiagnosed gynaecological condition.
I then go on to explain that I have daughters and that there is no way I would wait and see, before getting help. I also explain that on a health perspective, there are many dangers in letting a young woman suffer such a horrible experience.
The cause of period pain could affect future fertility
I often have to explain the implications of leaving a disease and not intervening early enough. The explanation of by not getting early intervention could mean that they may not ever have grand children, is usually enough to spur many a mother into prompt action. But, it should not have to take these words to prompt someone into action.
Gynaecological conditions cause period pain
The facts are clear now. There is enough education out there. The simple fact is that period pain (and associated symptoms) is not normal and this usually means that there is an undiagnosed gynaecological condition causing the issue. One of the most common causes being endometriosis, or adenomyosis, or both combined. There could be other facts such as pelvic congestion syndrome, or worst still, though rare, there could be something more sinister such as cancer.
Sexually Transmitted Infections
The other thing that parents may not like to admit is that their daughter may actually be having sex and has a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI). I often have parents interject when asking if a teenager is sexually active. Many a parent answer “No” on the teenagers behalf, only to then learn that their little girl is having sex.
Sexually transmitted diseases (STI’s) can cause permanent damage to reproductive organs and future fertility if not treated early enough. The reality is that many young girls, and boys, are having sex at a very young age, regardless of what parents may believe. Parents do need to open to the possibility that their child’s pain could in fact be related to being sexually active.
The things parents need to know
The things I am trying to educate all parents on are the following:
- No matter what anyone tell you, health professional included, ‘period pain is not normal’
- Please do not use the wait and see approach when your daughter is in pain, and has been for months.
- Women do not needlessly need to put up with pain each month.
- Early intervention is the key to treating and managing any disease or health issue
- Teenagers are not too young to have endometriosis, or other gynaecological issues.
- Many gynaecological issues are hereditary, so if a parent had period pain, or a diagnosed gynaecological issue, then there is a good chance their daughter will have the same.
- Parents should not feel guilty, or blame themselves for passing on hereditary issues. All of us have faulty genes.
- Regardless of upbringing, or moral stances, teenagers are having sex earlier these days
- Teenagers can have sexually transmitted diseases
- The earlier intervention is enacted and proper treatment and health management administered, the better the future fertility and health outcomes are for young woman.
- Without early intervention, some parents may never become grandparents.
- General practitioners are no gynaecologists, so please make sure you get referred onto a proper specialist. If not, find another GP.
- If you don’t get help with the first healthcare practitioner you see, please remember the value or a second, or tenth opinion.
I do get that many parent’s have been led to believe that period pain, and other associated symptoms are just part of live and something that I woman just has to put up with. I am sorry for those that were told this and then have put up with this when they didn’t have to.
Period pain is not normal
Please know that you daughter does not need to put up with these symptoms. Period pain is not normal and early intervention is the key to help your daughter live a happy and pain free life. It could really also help save her from the heartache many women have to live with daily. It could also help with her being able to have children of her own.
Do not use the wait and see approach for period pain
Never use the wait and see approach when it comes to period pain and the other associated menstrual symptoms. You daughter will thank you one day and I am sure her children will thank you too. Lead by example so that your daughter can lead by example to daughter, or daughters too.
If you do need help with your daughters period pain, and other associated symptoms, please give my friendly staff a call and find out how I may be able to help. There are in person and online consultation available. Conditions may apply with online consultations. My staff will explain all this to you when you make your enquiry, or book a consultation.
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